Gay/Bisexual Fact Sheet
Greetings to our gay and bisexual men,
It is often presumed that your cross-section of the population are already very experienced anal players. We are aware that this is not always the case, as many men prefer not to ‘do’ anal. We are also aware that of the men who do enjoy anal play, the ‘bigger is better’ philosophy is the underlying rule of thumb. When it comes to prostate massage, you need to forget this concept! Save ‘big’ for your dildos and boyfriends, because a prostate massage is a slightly more delicate procedure.
Results depend on the angle and shape of the toy, rather than the speed and regularity of thrusts (there is no thrusting at all), or the size. Size may be an issue for you especially if you are used to larger toys – you will probably prefer the Nexus Nero, as this has been designed with the more experienced anal player in mind. The Nexus Glide however, has been designed for users who prefer less bulk inside while playing, and would suit less experienced players.
Many gay and bisexual men approach the prostate massage with an air of professionalism – been there, done that. Unfortunately you will have to work almost as hard as straight men to get the ‘super O’s’ – the massive, earth shaking orgasms which are possible to achieve with the Nexus family of sex toys.
If you partake in regular anal activities, you do however have the upper hand on all the feelings and sensations which go with this area, and it will probably be easier for you to focus your breathing and feelings to include the anal area rather than the penis. This is where the benefits of being gay or bisexual end!
The rest is not like anything you will experience with a penis or dildo. Prostate massage is an art form of its own, with incredible rewards for dedicated and willing participants. Please be careful with the massager and follow the instructions. The forum is there for everyone’s use, so please put your 2 pence/cents worth on! Everyone’s opinion is valuable.
Happy massaging!
The Pleasure2me.co.uk Team