Straight Man's Fact Sheet
Old Pro or Newbie? You may be new to prostate massaging; you may be an old pro with the p-spot. Either way, prostate massaging is a healthy and erotic way to enhance your sex life. Prostate massaging is a very old method of procuring a healthy prostate, by providing prostate orgasms, milking the prostate thus keeping it replenished with oxygen, nutrients and energy flow.
Prostate Orgasms Not everyone has prostate orgasms – frequently dubbed the male super O’s. In fact, very few men will ever experience one in their life time. Men’s sex toys haven’t been adapted until recent times to fit the need for high quality, specialised prostate sex toys. Prostate massage is an enjoyable way to explore ones sexuality.
Is Prostate Massage Anal Sex? Anal sex is generally considered to be an erect penis in the anus of a partner. Of course ‘anal sex’ can be anything in the anal area for erotic experiences in either gender, but anal sex is generally not the same as prostate massage. Prostate massage for sexual pleasure is a form of anal sex, but not in the traditional sense. Anal sex comes in many shapes and forms, and prostate massage takes the experience of traditional anal sex a step further. When engaging in erotic anal activities, you are technically having ‘anal sex’. However, prostate massage can be done in a non-sexual manner and this is where the difference lies.
Prostate Play Prostate orgasms come from prostate play – prostate massaging and prostate milking. The terms are used interchangeably, but there is a not-so-subtle difference: prostate massaging is massaging the prostate either with fingers or a prostate massage device which may or may not result in an orgasm, or prostate milking; prostate milking can be non-sexual, and is the action of forcibly promoting the drainage of the prostate gland. This is usually done by your doctor.
The Male G-Spot Also known as your prostate gland, the male g-spot is an ultra versatile pleasure zone on the male body. The male g-spot is also known as the ‘p-spot’ (‘p’ for prostate) and is the supposed equivalent to the female g-spot. Male g-spot orgasms are intense, long lasting, and can be ‘dry’. Male g-spot orgasms come from deliberate firm but gentle pressure on the g-spot, with other accompanied erotic activities such as stroking, caressing, etc.
Some Things you should know
- Prostate orgasms often take time and work, and sometimes a prostate orgasm just won’t happen
reasons are many and varied, but the essential rule of thumb is listen to your body and relax! Prostate sex isn’t something we are generally accustomed to, and prostate milking is not something normally associated with sex. Practice, practice, practice.
- You may feel discomfort and embarrassment when first trying prostate massage/prostate milking
This is normal - it happens to all of us. When we are embarking on our prostate massage/prostate milking and anal sex discoveries, things don't always run smoothly or cleanly. Taking proper precautions ensures upsets are kept to a minimum. Don't feel ashamed of your mistakes - they are all part of the process. Prostate massage practice makes prostate massaging perfect!
- Using a male anal sex/prostate toy does not threaten your heterosexuality
It is so passé to think that a man enjoying anal sex or prostate massaging/prostate milking makes him a candidate for the rainbow club. Most people know by now that the male g-spot (or male p-spot) is in his anal passage and if they don't know it's his g-spot, they at least know his prostate is up there - thanks Hollywood! Being afraid of new things is normal, but being brave enough to challenge stereotypes and further your sexual explorations is liberating and rewarding. Thought it was only women that needed liberating? Think again. Prostate massage can be great for every man, no matter which gender/s he chooses to spend his time with.
- Your girlfriend probably won't mind you using a man's sex toy.
Think of it as similar to a woman's vibrator - an ordinary sex toy. These men’s sex toys are not a replacement for a partner, simply an aid to heighten your sexual responses, and give you prostate orgasms. Nothing compares to a real flesh and blood woman to share your body with. According to research, an orgasm with a partner releases up to 400% more endorphins than going solo. The endorphins effectively cling onto and temporarily void sex hormones like testosterone - that is why we are not satisfied to just self-pleasure our way around the universe. A prostate massager is the equivalent to a vibrator or other sex toy; you don't need a woman to give you mind blowing orgasms, but its far more satisfying when there is one there. Plus, anything that enhances your sexual pleasure enhances her sexual pleasure. Don't be scared to ask. If you need help explaining, send her here! Men’s sex toys have turned a corner and prostate massage devices are now more advanced than ever.
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Happy massaging!
The Pleasure2me.co.uk Team