An intimate experience for two
Step 1: Relax and Breathe
Learning how to deeply relax and connect your mind with your body is key to the success of your anal explorations with a prostate massager. Start your session with some deep breathing and relax your whole body. It is really important to don’t allow any worries creep in, as this will cause you to tighten your muscles.
Step 2: Arouse
You want this to be slow and sensuous. Your anal area doesn't produce any natural lubrication, so it is important to massage plenty of lubricant such as the ID Glide or Pjur Original into the anus and on the toy. The prostate takes a little time to warm up and engorges fully with blood, so it is essential you take things easy. Being well rested and having plenty of time to play is a good idea. The Nexus G-play and Nexus G- rider are ideal for external stimulation before you place the toy inside. The vibration settings allow you to begin with a slower sensation building up slowly, but always leaving things in your control.
Step 3: Insert the Prostate Massager
Positioning: The prostate massager can be inserted while you are on your hands and knees, but other options are on your side, with your knees slightly bent, or with your feet resting under his buttocks, kneeling. Make sure the toy is well lubricated. You should be in whatever position is comfortable. Lying on your back can cause the massager handle to push on the bed, which can cause discomfort. Hands and knees, on the side, or kneeling are all good positions to allow your partner access to all parts of your body for arousal.
During this process it is it is really important you have a good lubricant to hand so finding the lubricant that is best suites your needs is essential. Lubricants such as the ID Glide, Swede Aqua Comfort and Liquid Silk are all water based, giving a more natural feel but will need re applying. Silicone lubricants such as Pjur Original and Swede Silicone have an oily feel due to their composition but their texture offers a thicker and longer lasting feeling. Once you are confident in the lubricant that best suits you can explore with other lubricants, which incorporate sensations, such as ID Warming Liquid. The bigger the toy you are inserting the more help you may need so aids such as the Pjur Analyse and Innuendo are great for relaxing the anal entry.
Breathing: While inserting, breathe evenly and deeply, and relax the sphincter muscles with each exhalation. Take it slowly. Try to take your mind to a place you find most pleasurable. Fit the toy completely and comfortably inside your anal canal. Continue with your erotic play, keeping penis contact to a minimum, but do cause an erection. Keep the stimulation varied in whatever manner you prefer. He needs to concentrate on the sensations in his prostate and abdomen area.
Step 4: Getting Used to It
Breathe and feel the sensations it is important you relax and play around with different positions and angles being careful not to do anything to harsh in movement until you find the position that best suits you and provides the best sensation. There are many positions and ways of using anal toys but it is important you find what is best for you. This also means trying different toys. The Nexus Glide and Nexus Neo are great beginner toys but once you feel more confident enough you can progress to the Nexus Titus and Nexus Vibro. The Nexus G-rider and Nexus G-play combine vibrations so requiring less manual movement and provide great unisex play. Remember if the sensation does not feel right it may be simply the toy you have chosen is not suited to you so continue on your journey as we guarantee the right toy is within the Nexus range.
Step 5: Start Small Contractions
When you feel comfortable with the prostate massager inside you, you may feel the swell of your prostate against the toy. The prostate engorges with blood upon arousal, and this is why it is possible to feel it. This is what will provide the stimulation to the prostate, and have more intense orgasms. The reverberations of the anal contractions will vibrate up the shaft of the toy, into the head, and onto his prostate. Try contracting on inhalation, and letting go on exhalation. The untrained muscles will probably quiver involuntarily: this is good. You will feel the effects in your prostate.
Play around with the contractions and see how it feels with long ones, strong ones, short ones, and weak ones. Maintaining tautness in the sphincter will cause involuntary quivers, which in effect stimulate the prostate in a positive way. See what feels good. Keep the erotic stimulation on other parts of the body, and build into a rhythm.
Step 6: Take it further
You can now involve the penis in a more full-on way. There are no rules now, so find your own pleasure-spots and techniques. Most feelings are heightened at this point, so make the most of them! Feelings tend to build up and come in waves. When you are really confident and have tried this experience over a period of time and you want to explore with larger toys then the Nexus Gyro and Nexus ‘O’ are for you.
Step 7: Keep Practicing
Try different things, read up forums, talk to people. Every man's experience with a prostate massager is different and unique, but the sensations are normally very similar in the process. If you don't achieve success right away, don't panic and don't give up! We are confident you will find a toy within the Nexus range that best suits your pleasure!
