Prostate Massage Myths

Prostate massage is shrouded in mystery and misinformation. Due to a significant lack of quality information being presented to the general public in easy-to-understand language, there are many myths regarding this age-old practice.


The anal canal is actually very clean most of the time, the faecal matter is stored high up in the colon and bowel, and only exits when the bowels are emptied, in a process called peristalsis a wave-like contraction of the muscles which pushes waste out. The anal sphincters, which control the outward-bound matter, are voluntary skeletal muscle and you control them. It is recommended to empty the bowel at least half an hour before attempting prostate massage or anal play and to use an anal douche if necessary or desired. Prostate massage and anal sex doesn’t result in defecation even though it can sometimes feel like it!


Being gay has become synonymous with anal sex, which is highly unfortunate for the straight man and his anal adventures, as he has become fearful that engaging in anal sex, anal play or prostate massage for pleasure will see him labeled as a homosexual. Here at Nexus we believe prostate toys are to be explored by all men and so we have developed a range to suit all men in every part of their journey through ultimate pleasure.


Unless you have a prostate condition such as prostate cancer, prostatic calculi, an infection or haemorrhoids, prostate massage is considered to be safe and very pleasurable if done carefully. 'Carefully' means using a good quality lubricant, not thrusting or being too rough, and employing proper hygiene practices in all anal play whether this is with a prostate massager, butt plug, anal vibrator, dildo or anal toy. If you are worried then choose an anal relaxant spray such as Pjur Anylyse or Innuendo for that extra help and relaxing you and make sure you have plenty of lubricant at hand.

The rectal wall is quite thin which allows the close contact with the prostate, but it also means it is quite delicate. Take proper precautions, be gentle and if you feel any pain, you are doing something wrong. Stop, and try again more carefully, or at a later stage. If you encounter bleeding or ongoing pain, see your health professional.


Women can use the range of Nexus prostate massagers too, with some very delightful results. More recently we have developed the Nexus G-play and G-rider with both women and men in mind. The softer material silicone material of the Nexus G-rider and Nexus G-play are not just labeled luxurious they feel luxurious even to the touch of your hand. Although Prostate massage can only be applied to a male body the Nexus devices are still very versatile with both sexes. The female G-Spot is in the same place as the male G-Spot but one wall deeper on the inside front wall of the vagina. Due to the close proximity of the vagina to the anal canal, the inside of the vagina is also stimulated by anal sex and use of a prostate massager for anal sex. It is also now known that the clitoris is actually quite large and imbedded, and it is thought that the G-Spot is actually the other side of the clitoris, or part thereof. The Nexus G-rider is a great toy for both women and men as it has five vibration settings, which allow you to control your sensation. The length and girth of the toy is a great size for entry with the nodgels on the handle of the toy ensuring you experience pleasure externally simultaneously.


The name ‘male G-Spot’ has been adapted from the female G-Spot so named because of the man who ‘discovered’ the female G-Spot, Dr. Gräfenburg. The G-Spot has now become the common name given to a super-sensitive erotic pleasure zone, and the prostate is the male equivalent. Technically the G-Spot is a female term, but as applied to the now common knowledge of our sexual hot spots, it works equally well when transferred. The male G-Spot could easily be called the ‘P-Spot’, and makes it clear that anal sex is pleasurable for both sexes, but in different ways.

Many men will refuse to admit that they can get pleasure anally, through anal play, butt plugs, anal vibrators or prostate massagers like the Nexus range. But we know from our strong client base, which is ever growing and the feedback we receive that this is not the case.


People have been enjoying anal sex and prostate massage with no adverse effects. The Nexus range of prostate massagers are specifically designed with our bodies in mind and are checked by professionals for safety. The Nexus range of prostate massagers work with the body to produce male prostate orgasms.

The Nexus range of prostate massagers include the Nexus Glide and Nexus Neo for beginners, the Nexus Excel, Nexus Vibro and Nexus Titus for intermediate users. The Nexus Gyro, Nexus Gyro Xtreme, Nexus ‘O’ and Nexus ‘O’ Max for advanced users. Nexus G-rider and Nexus G-play for unisex users for beginner and intermediate users and the Nexus iSTIM for those searching for the ultimate sensation.