The Body: Male and Female Erogenous Zones

The scalp is full of nerve endings which make it a very pleasurable place to start your seduction. Try running your nails gently over his scalp using different pressures, speeds and motions – he’ll be putty in your hands in no time!


If your man has a shaved head you can also try giving him a sensual head massage using scented oils to add some extra indulgence to your foreplay.


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As well as being highly sensitive to touch, the ears are great way to turn your man on without even touching him – many men find the sound of heavy breathing or soft moaning an immense turn on so don’t feel shy about making more noise than usual!


Use the pads of your index finger and thumb to massage the outer ears with slow, firm movements. You can also squeeze the earlobes and whilst using your mouth to give gentle butterfly kisses behind the ear.

Men love to be treated passionately – what better way to show your desire for him then with a long, smouldering kiss? Don’t wait for him to initiate proceedings, if you want him you need to let him know!


Experiment with different variations of kisses – tiny fluttering butterfly kisses, teasing tongue flicks and even gentle nibbles are all great ways for you to show him what’s in store for him later. Don’t forget to use your hands to caress the rest of his body whilst you kiss!

Another hot zone of sensitive nerve endings, attention to the neck and collarbones is a great way to show your intentions. Massaging, kissing, nibbling, sucking and even biting this area gives your man a good idea of what you plan to do to other parts of him so make sure you give it your best performance.


Use a blindfold on your man to enhance his sensitivity to touch and to increase anticipation. Take your time and gently touch him with your fingertips before gently kissing and nibbling the back of his neck, using your hands to explore the rest of his body. He’ll be ready for action in no time!


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Just like women, the male nipples can be very sensitive to stimulation however this can vary from man to man so don’t get offended if he doesn’t respond to your moves! Try stroking, sucking and licking each nipple in turn and if he reacts well proceed with some more advanced techniques to show him that you mean business.


Sometimes you need to cool things down in order to spice things up! Bring a tray of ice cubes into the bedroom and try gently holding a cube for a few seconds to the very tips of his nipples and then gently nibbling the area– the different sensations of the chill of the ice and the warmth of your mouth are guaranteed to drive him crazy! You can also reverse the chill by using a special warming liquid.


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This highly sensitive area is often neglected in favour it’s more famous hot spot so indulge your man and pay his inner thighs some well deserved attention! Some well aimed licks, kisses and nibbles will also increase his need and desire – he may ask you to hurry and get to the ‘point’ but tell him to wait – he will definitely thank you for the increased tension!


Take intimacy to a whole new level by adding some extra electricity – literally! Electro stimulation units are quickly becoming popular with couples who wish to experiment in their love play. Specially designed products such as the Nexus iSTIM are perfect for stimulating sensitive areas such as the inner thighs and can even be used on the genitals for a whole new sensual experience!


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For many women, a good firm bottom on a man is a huge turn on so paying attention to this area is sure to excite both partners! Massaging, kneading, kissing biting and even spanking the buttocks can be hugely pleasurable and naughtily enticing so don’t be afraid to act a little rough.


As with the inner thighs, electro sexual stimulation units such as the Nexus iSTIM can intensify sensation when applied to the buttocks and can add a whole new dimension when used whilst giving a blowjob or during intercourse.


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Often a taboo area for men and women alike, stimulation of the anus is a great way to introduce men to their sexual centre - the prostate gland, otherwise known as the male G-Spot. Many straight men shy away from anal stimulation due to the homosexual connotations, but with a little persuasion and reassurance you can entice your lover into experimenting with this immensely pleasurable activity.


They key is to start off slowly and gently – try massaging the buttocks in a circular motion so that the buttock crease is gently stretched and opened to reveal the anal opening. You can then try inserting a well lubricated finger or small dildo into the opening – your man will be surprised at how much pleasure he can get from something so small! Gently move your chosen instrument in and out of the anus or go a little deeper and try massaging the sides of his rectum. There are many different products available on the market for men who wish to explore anal play so you are bound to find something he will enjoy!


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If your man has not heard of the Male Super Orgasm than this is a great time to tell him about it! Essentially, the Male Super O is a non-ejaculatory orgasm that shakes the whole body with continuous orgasms which ripple all over the body in waves. A whole world away from traditional orgasms, the difference lies in the absence of penis play – to achieve the Super O the only way is to stimulate both the prostate and the perineum at the same time. You can do this either by manually massaging the perineum whilst using a dildo or butt plug to reach the G-spot or by using a specially designed prostate massager such as the Nexus Glide.


If your man is hesitant about trying prostate massage for the first time, try watching a DVD on the subject together or search the internet for tips and information – he’ll soon realise that many straight men enjoy stimulating their G-Spot and that you will both benefit from experimenting within your sex life – after all, the key to a healthy relationship is a varied sex life!


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This is the ridged area of skin located between the testicles and the anus. This is an extremely sensitive area, packed full of delicate nerve endings which creates sensations that most men find irresistible. Applying vibrations to this area can be very satisfying, although keep them deep and slow for maximum pleasure.


Give him a toe-curling orgasm to remember by combining a perineum massage with your usual blowjob technique! Half way through your oral activity bring your fingers up underneath his testicles and move them back towards his anus where you should be able to locate a cable of fibres under the skin. Gently place your fingers either side of this ‘rope’ and move them left to right so that the skin is massaged against it – be careful not to press too hard. Massage an inch or so at a time for around 20 seconds gradually moving your fingers towards the penis. It might take you a little while to get used to this multi-tasking stimulation technique but don’t worry - he won’t mind you practicing!

Make him last longer whilst increasing his pleasure by using a high quality cock ring. Cock rings work by restricting the blood flow out of the penis and thus his erection for longer…and longer! There are many great products on the market, including multi-purpose rings which stimulate the perineum or testicles at the same time, such as the chrome Tear Drop Cock Ring.