Prostate Massage Myths

Prostate massage is shrouded in mystery and misinformation.  Due to a significant lack of quality information being presented to the general public in easy-to-understand language, there are many myths regarding this age-old practice.

Read ahead for some no-nonsense answers to common prostate massage myths.

Myth 1 - Prostate Massage will result in a 'mess'

The anal canal is actually very clean most of the time – the faecal matter is stored high up in the colon and bowel, and only exits when the bowels are emptied, in a process called peristalsis – a wave-like contraction of the muscles which pushes waste out. The anal sphincters which control the outward bound matter are voluntary skeletal muscle – you control them. It is recommended to empty the bowel at least half an hour before attempting prostate massage or anal play and to use an anal douche if necessary or desired. Prostate massage and anal sex doesn’t result in defecation even though it can sometimes feel like it! 

Myth 2 - Prostate Massage is only a medical procedure

Prostate massage has been performed since the dawn of mankind for sexual and urinary health and pleasure alike in many cultures.  It is only in the modern western world that prostate massage has been labelled by the medical profession as a medical procedure.  Modern medicine – that is modern western medicine – hasn’t been around that long itself, so is hardly in a position to judge.  The discovery of penicillin has borne an era of reliance on drugs and surgery, and the more holistic methods of the past have been all but abandoned – it is no mystery as to why natural medicine is having its home coming; western medicine aint all its cracked up to be, and prostate massage is a perfect example of old wisdom coming back into fashion. 

Myth 3 - Anal play and prostate massage for pleasure are not for straight men

It is a recent development (in the last few centuries) that sexual labels even exist – and the stereotypical sexual activities that go along with them.  Being gay has become synonymous with anal sex which is highly unfortunate for the straight man and his anal adventures, as he has become fearful that engaging in anal sex, anal play or prostate massage for pleasure will see him labelled as a homosexual. 

Being a homosexual has been considered taboo until quite recently, and in some places in the world it is still illegal to be gay – around 70 countries ban homosexual activity.  There is recorded evidence that around 550BC laws were put in place to restrict homosexual activity, and to disobey and be caught would earn you the death penalty. 

It has not been an easy ride for gay men and women, but thankfully these outdated (and quite frankly ridiculous) ideas are now slowly but surely fading into our mottled social history.  This phobia of being labelled gay, or being able to be ‘turned’ gay by something as simple as putting something into your butt is a pseudo religious abstraction and follows on from the concept that a healthy relationship can only exist exclusively between a man and a woman.  Everyone has a butt – enjoy it!  There are no rules. 

Myth 4 - Prostate massage is unsafe

Unless you have a prostate condition such as prostate cancer, prostatic calculi, an infection or haemorrhoids, prostate massage is considered to be safe and very pleasurable if done carefully.  ‘Carefully’ means using a good quality lubricant, not thrusting or being too rough, and employing proper hygiene practices in all anal play – whether this is with a prostate massager, butt plug, anal vibrator, dildo or anal toy. 

The rectal wall is quite thin which allows the close contact with the prostate, but it also means it is quite delicate.  Take proper precautions and be gentle – if you feel any pain, you are doing something wrong.  Stop, and try again more carefully, or at a later stage.  If you encounter bleeding or ongoing pain, see your health professional.

Myth 5 - Women can’t use Nexus prostate massagers 

The range of Nexus prostate massagers can be used by women too, with some very delightful results.  ‘Prostate massage’ can obviously only be applied to a male body, but the Nexus devices are still very versatile with both sexes, and produce some wicked orgasms in women.  The female g-spot is in the same place as the male g-spot but one wall deeper – on the inside front wall of the vagina.  Due to the close proximity of the vagina to the anal canal, the inside of the vagina is also stimulated by anal sex and use of a prostate massager for anal sex.  It is also now known that the clitoris is actually quite large and imbedded, and it is thought that the g-spot is actually the other side of the clitoris, or part thereof. 

Myth 6 - The male g-spot doesn’t exist

The name ‘male g-spot’ has been adapted from the female g-spot – so named because of the man who ‘discovered’ the female g-spot, Dr. Gräfenburg.  The g-spot has now become the common name given to a super-sensitive erotic pleasure zone, and the prostate is the male equivalent.  Technically the g-spot is a female term, but as applied to the now common knowledge of our sexual hot spots, it works equally well when transferred.  The male g-spot could easily be called the ‘p-spot’, and makes it clear that anal sex is pleasurable for both sexes, but in different ways. 

Many men will refuse point blank to acknowledge that they can get pleasure anally, through anal play, butt plugs, anal vibrators or prostate massagers like the Nexus range.  This is denial, plain and simple.  The male g-spot exists. 

Myth 7 - The Anal canal shouldn't be penetrated with foreign objects like prostate massagers  

Who says!  People have been enjoying anal sex and prostate massage with no adverse effects since the dawn of mankind – it is only human nature to experiment, as it is only human nature to be afraid of things with no real basis.  The Nexus range of prostate massagers are specifically designed with our bodies in mind, and checked by medical professionals for safety.  The Nexus range of prostate massagers work with the body to produce male prostate orgasms and male milking.  The prostate gland has been massaged for health and pleasure in many cultures for many millennia, and is considered to be safe and beneficial in most cases.

The Nexus range of prostate massagers include the Nexus Excel, Vibro, Titus, Neo, Pods, Gyro, Glide or Duo