Interesting Prostate Massage Questions

Does prostate massage hurt?

Not if done correctly. If prostate massage hurts, you are not doing it correctly. If you have stinging or burning, you may have torn your sensitive anal passage, so wait a week before you try again so it can heal. If any discomfort or pain continues, see your health care professional. Prostate massage should be very pleasurable! 

I can't get an erection while the toy is in. Am I doing something wrong?

Every man is different, and your body may take some time to get used to the sex toy, so if an erection is what you want, persevere. Many men have very exciting g-spot orgasms without an erection - it is not essential. In fact, it doesn't matter. Try on a different occasion, or try some other stimulation while you have the sex toy in, like erotic touching, or an erotic movie. Prostate massage is an individual journey, and sometimes unexpected things happen. Keep playing - you never know what might happen!

Lots of milky or clear fluid comes out when I ejaculate when I have the massager in. Is this normal?

Yes. When you milk the prostate, all the fluid is expelled from the prostate gland, which results in a greater volume of fluid coming out. This fluid may be of different consistencies and colour than normal ejaculate fluid. This is what is referred to as male milking.  The fluid may range from a white to yellow colour, and taste, smell and feel different.  If you are worried about the contents of your prostate, see a health care professional for advice. 

Do I need to touch my penis when I have the toy in?

You can do anything you like, but to get a full body, non-ejaculatory orgasm it is recommended that you don't touch your penis. Instead, concentrate on the sensations in your body, and build on them with anal contractions. Touching the penis generally results in ejaculation which is perfectly fine (and more intense) because it shifts the focus away from the prostate and into the penis. Prostate massage is your journey, so do what you like!

Why do I need to use lube?

Lubricant ensures the smooth journey of the toy inside the anal passage, keeping you safe from tears and discomfort caused by the dryness of the anal canal. The anal passage is not naturally self-lubricating, so additional lubricant is required for pleasurable anal play and prostate massage. 

Can I share my toy?

Yes, but make sure it is thoroughly washed in a mild detergent and hot water. To protect you from sharing bacteria with another person, you can use a condom over the toy, although they don't fit snugly, but do the trick. The toys are high grade medical materials, and don't hold bacteria well after washing. Dry well. You can also put on the top shelf of the dishwasher.

Can I share my toy?

Yes, but make sure it is thoroughly washed in a mild detergent and hot water. To protect you from sharing bacteria with another person, you can use a condom over the toy, although they don't fit snugly, but do the trick. The toys are high grade medical materials, and don't hold bacteria well after washing. Dry well. You can also put on the top shelf of the dishwasher.

What are the long term effects of prostate massage?

If you use the prostate toys correctly there is little to no risk to your prostate (p-spot) though the long term affects of using prostate massage devices such as the Nexus range are not documented.  The risk to the anal canal is very real if the male g-spot devices are not used properly, and proper care and hygiene practices should be employed at all times. 

The human body is an amazing creation and is very adaptable.  For the most part, regular prostate massage is very beneficial and can help prevent prostate problems such as prostatitis, BHP, and sexual dysfunction.  Using large objects regularly, however, may eventually cause some stretching of the sphincter muscles.  These muscles are very strong and elastic, but they are not magic and do suffer wear and tear like everything else. 

Will I get 'addicted' to using the prostate massager?

It is highly unlikely that you will get addicted to using the prostate massager, primarily because it is not the sort of thing that most people would want to do all the time for practical purposes – the time and effort required is usually in short supply.  Anal sex is also reasonably taxing to the body and wear and tear would dictate that it is not practicable to do it all the time. 

Is prostate massage illegal?

Prostate massage is not illegal, because it is a recognised – albeit oft rejected – medical procedure.  If you want to pay someone other than a medical doctor to do it, however, you may run into trouble.  Because it is considered a sex act in many places it comes under the umbrella of prostitution, which is illegal in most places.  Check your local laws if you want to stay out of trouble when seeing a practitioner (or experienced lovely lady or man) for prostate massage services. 

What is a prostate gland?

The prostate gland is a small walnut-sized gland located inside the abdominal cavity of males, just below the bladder.  Its main purpose is to store and secrete a clear fluid that makes up almost a third of semen.  The fluid is alkaline, which combats the acidity of the vagina, and helps the sperm to stay alive long enough to swim to their prize eggs.  The prostate gland is also called the ‘p-spot’ or male g-spot.  It can be accessed through the rectal wall via the anus and be stimulated for sexual pleasure, or for male milking (the emptying of the prostate gland). 

The prostate wraps around the urethra, so is intricately tied in with the male urinary system – an enlarged prostate can result in impeded urinary flow and problems with orgasm and ejaculation. 

The main function of the prostate is reproduction. The testicles produce sperm, the "little guys" that fertilize eggs. The vas deferens carries this sperm to the prostate, where it mixes with fluid from the prostate and seminal vesicles. When you have an orgasm, you ejaculate this fluid with muscle contractions and the “little guys” swim for their lives. 

Potential prostate problems

Prostatitis (inflammation of the prostate), Benign Prostatic Hyperplasia (BPH), and prostate cancer are the most common prostate-related problems.  Regular prostate massage is thought to significantly benefit the prostate, as it clears any stagnant fluids and replenishes nutrients and blood supply, reducing problems like prostatitis.  Some studies show that 80% of men will at some point in their lives (normally later on in life) have an enlarged prostate.  The condition is very common, and may appear and disappear intermittently. 

Prostate massage

Prostate massage is the method of stimulating the prostate via the anal canal, and ‘milking’ the prostate so it empties of fluid.  It has been used for centuries for male sexual health and longevity in many cultures, and is slowly being recognised by western medicine as being beneficial.  Prostate massage can be very erotic, and provides unique sensations and can trigger extremely intense whole body orgasms, also known as ‘the super O’.  The orgasms derived from the male g-spot (or p-spot as it is sometimes called) can be ‘dry’ orgasms, without ejaculation.